Anonymous confession: My partner came with his people to pay lobola, and what should have been a serious family moment turned into one of the most embarrassing days of my life. He kept passing gas loudly in front of everyone, then tried to blame me for it. My parents later told me to advise him to sort out his stomach. He treats me well and provides for me, but now I keep wondering if I can survive a lifetime of being framed for his public announcements.